Can compatibility tests really work?

We naturally gravitate toward people who are similar to us. Often, it’s an unconscious act. We’re mysteriously drawn to those who exhibit our own values, mannerisms and even humor.

Our tendency to find those like us and establish relationships with them is ingrained in us from birth. Psychologists have observed small children finding other children like themselves to play with. Teenagers often congregate in groups in which all members look and act similar. Even gangs are pulled together and adopt a similar appearance.

Chinese Zodiac compatibility is a discipline that has been used for generations to identify the chances of people being attracted to one another. But, it’s more than merely a way to find love and romance (though that is a powerful way of recognizing a suitable partner).

Rather, the probable attraction (or repulsion) can be distinguished between any 2 individuals including business partners, friends, students and teachers. It can be applied to note the disparities that make people different.

Finding Compatibility In The Signs

Many people scoff at the idea of using a Chinese Zodiac compatibility test to find people who are like us. But, their skepticism is mostly due to a lack of understanding. The Chinese have studied the signs of the Zodiac for longer than most can remember. It’s not only an important component of their culture, steeped in myth and lore. It’s also a practical method of comprehending human nature.

The Chinese were among the first cultures to realize the link between personal human traits and the signs of the Zodiac. Each of the 12 signs typifies certain values and characteristics. Based upon these attributes, people who were born under the various signs are more likely to find a link in their commonalities and differences.

For example, a rat (the first sign of the Chinese Zodiac) is thought to be imaginative and witty. According to the Zodiac chart, rats are well-suited with dragons who tend to be dogmatic and decisive. Creative people often need someone who is decisive to propel the couple toward results.

The Art Of Finding A Suitable Companion

While the first attribute most people notice about someone is physical, relationships that are based upon such traits are fleeting. Other features are far more important and serve as the foundation for a lasting union. The Chinese have understood this since the creation of their Zodiac. And they’ve formulated their Chinese Zodiac compatibility tests to leverage this understanding. By identifying those to whom we’re exposed in the context of their signs, we can exploit our ability to find those who make suitable companions.

What To Do If Your Partner Isn’t “Compatible”

Even though compatibility tests that follow the Chinese Zodiac provide guidance, they don’t preclude 2 people from getting along in spite of their signs. In fact, millions of people enjoy fruitful relationships in seeming contradiction to the Zodiac. This is likely due to our ability to constantly look for the best qualities in other people.

If your partner was born under a sign that the Chinese Zodiac has deemed unsuitable or incompatible for your life, don’t end the relationship. Remember, compatibility tests based on the Zodiac signs are meant to guide you, not dictate your choices. That being said, if you’re currently without a partner, be open to exploring the suggestions of the signs. Generations before us have successfully established rewarding bonds by studying them.

The Chinese Zodiac uses a 12-year rotation of animals. Each animal represents 1 year and their rotation signals more than merely the passage of time. The animals signify the disposition of the people who are born throughout that year. For example, those who are born during the year represented by the dragon are expected to personify certain character traits that the dragon symbolizes. Below, we’ll describe the traits embodied by each animal in the Zodiac calendar. You’ll gain insight into the temperament of those born during each of the Zodiac’s years.

Rat

The rat was the first to be added into the Zodiac calendar. Charismatic and hard-working, people born during the year of the rat can also be selfish and even ruthless. They can simultaneously show love and affection but become angered quickly. They form the first animal trine with dragons and monkeys.

Ox

People born under the ox are always dependable and make fantastic leaders. However, due to their unyielding personality, they can often be stubborn when they believe in their position. When they lead others, they’re often demanding (likely because they expect the best of themselves). They’re included in the second animal trine with snakes and roosters.

Tiger

Those who are born during the year of the tiger are usually lighthearted and this quality is reflected in their lifestyle. Though they can show passion for those around them, they’re easily angered and can be unpredictable. That’s due to their emotional side which has ample room for both love and selfishness. The tiger forms the third animal trine with the horse and dog.

Rabbit

Of all Chinese Zodiac signs, the rabbit embodies grace. They gravitate toward serenity and tend to be creative. Though these people are usually tender and affectionate with those who are close to them, they can also be quiet and reserved. With sheep and pigs, the rabbit forms the fourth of four animal trines.

Dragon

The dragon is considered one of the most brash of Zodiac signs. People born during the year of the dragon are nearly always self-assured of their actions. They’re usually great leaders because they make decisions quickly and confidently. However, their zest to push forward can often make them seem arrogant.

Snake

People with the Zodiac sign of a snake are often quiet. They think everything through (usually without consulting others for advice) before taking action. While many people think of them as wise, others see them as conniving. Snakes have a hard time getting people to trust them because they typically trust others very little.

Horse

These people are usually popular with everyone (though rats tend to avoid them). They have very little trouble talking with others. Most of the other animals within the Zodiac cycle are drawn to the horse. But, some feel they’re rude and suffer a superiority complex.

Sheep

People born during the year of the sheep tend to walk their own path. It’s not because they ostracize themselves. Instead, they merely like to have their own space. They’re empathetic toward other people and can often seem overly-sensitive when receiving feedback.

Monkey

Those who are born during the year of the monkey can be unpredictable. They’re smart and sociable, but have a tendency to be unfaithful to those who have placed their trust in them. However, because these people are animated, others tend to enjoy their company. 

Rooster 

Roosters are perfectionists. To their credit, they typically do a great job at whatever they task they take upon themselves. But, these people can often seem as if they have an ego. Others sometimes avoid the rooster because he’s boastful and opinionated. That being said, if something needs to be done well, the rooster is typically dependable.

Dog 

They’re faithful to the people they love. But, dogs also have a tendency to argue. People born during the year of the dog are generous and intelligent. That’s the reason most others enjoy their friendship. 

Pig

People who have the pig as their Zodiac sign usually get along with nearly everyone. Oddly, the only people they tend to agitate are other pigs. While they’re honest and patient, they can also anger swiftly. That being said, of all the animals in the Zodiac, pigs are the most likely to sacrifice themselves for others.

Knowing Your Chinese Zodiac Sign

While the traits and dispositions of the people around you may not always be consistent with their Chinese Zodiac signs, you’ll be surprised by how accurate the Zodiac animals are. The key is to know your own sign. That way, you can consider the personality and character of other people in relation to what the Zodiac implies. It’s not flawless. But, millions of people use what the Zodiac signs tell them to interact with those to whom they’re exposed each day.